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Ministry Coaching 101 — Getting Past Pooped

Tom Wood September 16 2010

Part of the ministry role I have now in my life is coaching ministry leaders. Way back, when I was praying through my calling before going to college, I had considered being a high school coach. I ended up a pastor—a church planter and pastor. Now I am coaching pastors and church planting pastors. Its part of my story.

Gary Collins wrote, “Coaching is the key element in producing good leaders. To be a good leader you must be a good coach. And to be a good coach you must recognize that coaching is a significant form of leadership” – Christian Coaching.

If you think back on your life, I suspect that there was a coach who had an influence on your life—good or bad. For some, it might be a football coach. Others it had to do with the arts or science or scouts. Maybe it was a neighborhood dad who took a real interest in you and some others around. Coaching had a major impact on you.

When you consider your church ministry, let me ask you a question: Who is often the most under-resourced person in the church? Who gets the least amount of support and attention? (Besides you I would add).

Some chief complaints of leaders in the church are they feel uncared for, under-resourced and under appreciated—they are pooped. So often we get someone to volunteer for a leadership role—elder, deacon, small group leader, Sunday school teacher, or music—maybe give them a one day training event and then turn them loose. We delegate to them the responsibility to make it work. And they get pooped.

Here is a Principle: There are organizational systems that free leaders to lead and some that are ministry “stallers” and “stoppers”.

In church planting, studies show that a church planter who meets regularly with a coach will start a church that is two times the size of one where the planter isn’t coached. And if the planter meets regularly with a group of peers, it increases the survivability of the new church 135%. Pretty amazing influence of what coaching can do for a leader.

Coaching is essential to the ongoing health and survivability of your leaders in your church—to cut down on the pooped-out leaders. But not just any kind of coaching methodology will work. Gospel Centered, grace-saturated coaching is the kind your people need…and maybe you need as well. More on that later!

3 Responses to “Ministry Coaching 101 — Getting Past Pooped”

  1. How can I say this, I am pooped from coaching. I am an ESL prof and a lay-pastor. I lead 2 Bible studies and spend Saturday mornings training future Korean missionaries. This week I am preaching, most weeks I just edit my pastor’s sermons for English mistakes (I live in Korea) and fixing doctrinally confusing sentences. I lead an ESL Bible study weekly and am the general go-to guy for all things Christian within the expat ministry of our church.

    How do coaches get energized? I feel like I am in some sort of pastoral debt. I am giving out of a spiritually and emotionally empry wallet.

  2. stop stop stop. you feel like your in some pastoral DEBT. that statment tells me you need to speak to another coach and pastor who is well seasoned in ministry. maybe restructering is needed as a lay pastor. you can say how many hrs you are available to work for the LORD.

  3. Keith. well I was wondering if someone would make a comment about your post…and Kerry stepped up. I waited for someone who follows the post to say something about what you wrote.
    Maybe most didn’t cause they feel exactly what you feel…overwhelmed and pooped from similar type ministry assignments. If so, that is why Steve and company formed Poopedpastors…
    I want to echo one thing from Kerry’s post, but ask it rather than state it– do you have a ministry coach? If so, what does the coach say about your activities? If not, why not? You are coaching others and see the value they have by having a ministry coach…
    If Jonathan Edwards was right (and he is most of the time), then in his book Freedom of the Will, he suggests that everyone is doing what they LOVE to do. No one is forced. I mean this in the most pastoral way I can say it via a blog post… What you are doing is what you Love to do. Something behind the busyness. Something which is what you are centering life on…and it may be ministry. Identify that. And a good coach can help you find out what it is.


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